LondonKings: Love Making Tips

How to Propose a Girl?

12:25 AM

So you are in love and wants to propose a girl? Not sure how to propose your girl? Are you in love with some girl and find it difficult to tell her? Are you confused how to propose her? Do not worry. You are not alone because almost every boy feels the same kind of nervousness. Here are some tips that will help you in proposing a girl. You have to remember one thing that girls are different from you and they differ from each other too. At the same time they are very sensitive also.

So, the first thing that you have to keep in mind is you need to propose the girl according to her temperament and nature and it should be completely unique way of proposing. You should not copy anyone’s style or ask suggestions from your friends.
Remember, they are of your age and have no experience of dealing with girls in such a sensitive matter.

Tips on How to Propose a Girl
Be Yourself

The first tip is to be yourself and never try to overdo anything. You can make it special and sweet even while keeping it simple. If you behave in your natural way, you will find that everything will get along smoothly and comfortably.

Know your Girl and Propose Accordingly

There are some girls who still want their beloved to propose her in that traditional way. If your girl is of that type you can bow down on your knees and tell those three golden words that she wants to hear from you, just to impress her.

Make Special Plans

Plan for a romantic dinner and make her feel special about her. Order her favoritism dish and you can propose her either before dinner or during the time of dessert. You can play her favorite music as well.

You can take her to that place where you met her for the first time and recreate the same environment and scene. This will make her recall everything and when you will propose her, she will definitely get moved and will say yes to you immediately.

Create a Romantic Moment

Drive her to the beach and when the sun is just going to set, you can propose her. Girls like romantic moments and special occasions. You can play soft music while driving and make her feel that something special is going to happen with her that day.

Take her at a Favourite Spot

You can go to the spot where both of you wanted to go and the place both of you like very much. With the much loved environment around you, you can propose her.

Buy a Special Gift for Her

You can buy a charm bracelet or a ring and ask her ‘Will you marry me?’ while presenting it to her. Presenting a ring to her will help you convey your message with an ease. Go near her with a bunch of red roses or take her somewhere out and then propose her.

Proposing in a Unique Way

You can also talk to her parents and then in front of them, propose her. You can also propose her in your unique way and for this you should plan and prepare for the moment.

These tips will certainly help you propose her in a special and unique way and you will surely be able to win her heart. However, you should also be sure that the girl also loves you. So do not hurry in presenting your proposal, analyze your relationship and you will get indications from the girl you are dating. Now, go ahead and plan a date to propose her. Tell her what you have in your heart for her.

How to Love

Make Your Girl Weak At The Knees

5:06 AM

Dinner and a movie? Check. Doing the dishes while she relaxes? Check. Picnic in the park? Check.

You might think you've got this whole romance thing down, and I’m not saying you don’t, but there are a whole bunch of uncommon romantic gestures you might not have considered.

So, consider the following fun and unique ways to show her that you care:

1. Make Her A Mixtape

Okay, so maybe not an actual tape, since few people have cassette players anymore. A mixed CD would certainly fit the bill.

In the age of Spotify, SoundCloud and iTunes, few people have physical copies of their music, so taking the time to think of some songs that she would like will show her you care — especially if you include some nifty artwork for the cover and liner notes.

2. Borrow A Puppy

There's something undeniably adorable about taking a puppy out for a walk and watching it discover the world in which it lives. So, imagine how into you she'll be once she sees you playing with a cute little pooch.

Borrow one from a friend or a family member; ask around. There's bound to be someone who has a dog you can borrow. For a real declaration of your future intent, you could even borrow a friend’s baby or toddler to watch for an afternoon.

3. Leave Her Notes

There's nothing like a little surprise note left in places she won't expect to show her you care. Try writing a romantic note on a Post-It and attaching it to her laptop screen, so it's there for her when she opens the computer. You could also slip notes into a book she’s reading.

4. Take Her Back in Time

She would appreciate a look into your past. Ask your parents to send a bunch of photos of you from when you were growing up. She'll get a kick out of looking at photos of the boy you once were — before you became the man for whom she fell.

5. Who's Her Favorite Writer?

Try to track down a rare first edition by one of her favorite writers. There's something precious about a rare copy of one of her most beloved novels.

You could also hunt online to see if you can track down an autographed edition; she’ll appreciate the effort you dedicated.

6. Sexy Underwear… For You

You might not feel so comfortable about this one, but try buying some sexy underwear to model for her. Hey, if sexy poses aren't one of your strengths, at least you'll make her laugh!

7. Spontaneous Stay-At-Home Dinner

When she's had a rough day at work, send her a text to tell her you're picking up food from her favorite place to bring to her for a chill date. Don't forget the wine!

8. Bake Her A Cake

Anyone can buy a nice cake, but to bake a cake from scratch is to show her that you care. When she sees that you've been busy sifting flour and separating eggs, she'll melt in your arms… just like all that darn butter you had to melt to make the icing.

9. Clear Space For Her At Your Place

This doesn't have to mean the two of you are getting super serious, but if she stays over at your place on a regular basis, then clear out space in your closet (or a drawer) just for her. This shows she's an important part of your life, and you love having her around.

10. Write Her A Romantic Letter

When was the last time you got an actual letter in the mail? Everyone prefers text and email, so the handwritten letter now seems prehistoric.

Write her a love letter; put a stamp on it and send it. When she's frowning over all of those bills in her letterbox and sees your letter, it will make her day. If you're not sure what to write, feel free to “borrow” particularly romantic quotes from movies and literature.

11. Learn How To Give A Real Massage

There are online tutorials that show you how to give a great massage. When many of us attempt to give our partner a massage, the result is often amateurish and leaves us covered in far too much lotion (there’s also an occasional bruise).

Teach yourself how to give a sensational, relaxing massage, and she'll love you for it. Be warned: You might be called upon to do it all the damn time.

12. Tell Her You Love Her

This shouldn't be an uncommon form of romance, but many women don't hear it often enough.

It doesn't have to be a big deal, but make sure you tell her you love her, whether by leaving a little note on her computer or whispering it in her ear as she's brushing her teeth. She’ll love hearing it, no matter when you tell her.

Food

Foods for harder erections Tonight

3:59 AM

LondonClicks looks at the best foods to help improve ‘strength’ in the bedroom

Our sex life is something we'd all like to improve. There's no shame admitting it. And for many men, the prospect of 'going soft' is a real concern.

But there is some good news, which should put an end to your worries.
According to a new study, which was conducted over a 30 year time frame by scientists at Harvard and the University of East Anglia, men who enjoyed a regular glass of red wine, and plenty of citrus fruits and berries such as strawberries, blueberries, apples and pears were less likely to develop erectile dysfunction.
Researchers found just three or four portions or glasses of flavonoid-rich food and drink was associated with a reduced risk of the problem by up to 21%.

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"This is the first study to look at the association between flavonoids and erectile dysfunction, which affects up to half of all middle-aged and older men," said lead researcher, Professor Aedin Cassidy. "Men who regularly consumed foods high in these flavonoids were less likely to suffer erectile dysfunction. In terms of quantities, we're talking just a few portions a week."

Now of course, we know not everyone enjoys a glass of red, and that there are some who don't eat enough fruit, despite what we've just told you. But fear not, because as ever, MH has you covered.
Here are the 10 foods you need to know about if you want keep hard when the going gets rough.

1. Coffee

The caffeine kick from a cup of Java boosts your metabolism, gets your blood pumping and could also enhance endurance by releasing fat stores, giving you the energy to last all night.

(Related: 6 ways to level-up your coffee)

2. Oysters

Yes, there is a reason for their sexy reputation. Oysters are rich in the mineral zinc and vitamin B6, both of which are vital for testosterone, without which you’d have the sex drive of a dead slug. If the thought of grey shellfish gloop sliding down your throat makes you gag, boost your testosterone with nuts and seeds instead.

3. Chillies

Spice up your love life with chillies. When your face flushes after eating a curry, that’s the blood vessels expanding thanks to the effect of the chillies. And it’s not just the blood vessels in your face that get the boost. Biologically speaking a hard-on is simple hydraulics – more liquid (blood) being forced into little tubes (blood vessels) in your penis – so what you need is a strong heart and smooth, healthy pipework.

4. Bananas

Hard men have healthy hearts, so eat bananas for potassium, which is great for your heart and circulation. Getting enough potassium helps keep your sodium levels under control, stopping your blood pressure from hitting the roof and reducing your risk of heart problems. If you eat too much salt and don’t like bananas, get your potassium from oranges or jacket potatoes (the mineral’s in the skin).

5. Salmon

The omega-3 fatty acids in oily fish make the blood less sticky, enhancing blood flow to the parts that matter. Eat fish like salmon, mackerel, trout and fresh tuna twice a week to keep your arteries well-oiled.

6. Pork

Contrary to popular belief, the penis does not have a mind of its own. To make it a fine and upstanding specimen, your neurons must be co-ordinated with military precision. You need thiamine, aka vitamin B1, for a healthy nervous system, so eat pork to help fire your swimmers in the right direction. Can’t or don’t eat pig? Get your B from beans and wholemeal bread.

7. Cherries

Cherries are packed full of anthocyanins, colourful plant chemicals which protect your artery walls, helping prevent the fatty plaques that lead to atherosclerosis, or clogged arteries. Don’t fancy cherries? Berries, or brightly coloured fruit such as peaches, nectarines and plums, will all keep your arteries smooth as a baby’s nether regions.

8. Onions

The phytochemical allicin in onions and garlic thins the blood and enhances your circulation, as well as making it less likely to clot and clog. Avoid unsexy onion-breath by chewing parsley or peppermints.

9. Wine

Wine – especially red wine – is a great source of the antioxidant phytochemical resveratrol, which helps open the arteries by enhancing the production of nitric oxide. Nitric oxide allows the blood vessels to expand, and this is how Viagra works. But while the little blue pill only works on tiny blood vessels, resveratrol helps your main arteries too. Make sure you stop at one or two glasses of wine – too much alcohol leads to the dreaded droop.

10. Porridge

Porridge isn’t sexy, but the soluble fibre in oatmeal mops up cholesterol, helping keep your blood vessels smooth and stretchy. So get your oats!

How to Sex

Sexting: “Power Words” – Turn Your Girl On At The Push Of Button

3:50 AM

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Sexting is such a great way arouse a woman (without even touching her), but many guys fail to use the right language when sexting and it ends up not working at all. The most important part of sexting is to use the kind of language that instantly gets your partner thinking about sex – and gets your lover’s imagination working at the same time. Check out these phrases you can use while sexting to instantly get your sweetie’s mind in the gutter.

Sexting Successfully Is All About Picking The Right Words

While you do get some points for making the effort to use your cell phone to communicate with your partner sexually, sexting is not going to work well (or at all) if you’re not picking the right words and using the right language. For example, lame (but somehow popular) phrases might sound something like:

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“You are so sexy…”
“I like your tits…”
“You are hot…”

As you can see, this language is completely uninspired and thoroughly “blah.” These phrases will do nothing to turn a woman on, simply because the words that are being used are doing nothing to spark your woman’s imagination and get the brain thinking about having sex.

This is where understanding the primary difference between they way men and women think about sex comes in. A man’s sex drive is often ignited by anything visual, such as porn, a naughty pic or even just a woman in a bikini. On the other hand, however, a woman’s sex drive is ignited by the exact opposite – a woman will get more turned on by reading or imagining something than just looking at it.
Instead of using lame phrases, strive to create sensual language when sexting your lover. Fore example, think of ways you can change an ordinary text into something incredible:

Instead of saying “I want to have sex with you tonight,” try saying “I’m going to make love to you tonight…make your whole body shudder…make you feel that warm, wonderful pleasure pulsing through your limbs, building and building until you explode in an orgasm.”

Using Primal, Sensual Language

A woman isn’t going to be turned on by hearing the words “tits,” or “sexy,” or “hot.” These just aren’t going to do it. The word “tits” does absolutely nothing to spark a woman’s imagination. On the other hand, however, using the word “thrust” is more likely to send your partner into a memory of the last time you two had particularly amazing sex – and she’s going to replay your thrusting in her mind over and over again – all because you used one simple word.

Another example of using primal language might be to use the word “lick” or “suck.” Instead of sexting your woman and saying “I want to go down on you,” you might want to say something like, “I can’t wait to get home and put my hot tongue on your clitoris. I’m going to lick you up and down until you squirt.” By using such sexy, descriptive language, you’re going to get your girl to immediately start imagining you performing oral sex.

Stimulate The “Sex” Area Of Your Lover’s Brain

So you know that using details and language that really play into the sexual part of a woman’s mind is the key to sexting. But what exactly are the phrases that when put into any text will instantly get your lover’s mind working? Next time you send your lover a racy text, try using some of these words when describing what you want to do – and what you want your woman to do to you.

Thrust
Scratch
Hips
Hair
Eyes
Throat
Nipple
Shudder
Shock
Force
Grab
Giggle
Slap
Spank

Other excellent words to use when sexting your partner are sexy verbs that are similar to those used in romance novels and erotic literature. For example, try using words like:

Lick
Suck
Tickle
Touch
Slide
Soft
Hot
Sweaty
Throbbing
Shaking
Wet
Dripping
Sticky
Taste
Feel
Hard

In addition to using the right words when sexting your lover, you also want to avoid using the wrong words. There are some words that even erotic novel authors use that aren’t going to arouse your woman – they’re going to make your lover laugh. Words that will make you sound ridiculous might be:

Manmeat
Man sausage
Love button
Sex hole
Globes
Love stick
Muffin

Remember that sexting should be fun and have a good time describing to your lover everything you want to do. She’ll imagine it all day long and when you actually get together, the fireworks will explode.

How to Sex

3 Things To Consider Before Sleeping With Boyfriend

9:32 AM

Before you hop in the sack, check out what the latest research has to say about premarital sex.

It's no surprise that most people engage in premarital sex, but one new study found that even if we look at surveys going back for decades, we see the same prevalence of the behavior.

Very few people actually wait until marriage to have sex — less than 10%, according to Lawrence Finer, research director at the Guttmacher Institute. That's been going on since the 1950s, contrary to the common belief that couples were more chaste back then.

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Yes, it's normal to have sex before marriage, meaning that almost everyone does it. After all, there are few things more tempting than the urge to make love with the new guy you're falling madly in love with. But is it healthy?

As with all great questions, the answer is: it depends. Here are the factors that make this normal behavior either healthy — or not — for you and your relationship.

1. Age at first sexual experience

A new study from the University of Texas at Austin suggests that individuals who have their first sexual experience later than average may have more satisfying romantic relationships in adulthood. According to the study, individuals who waited to have sex beyond age 19 reported less conflict, more enjoyment, and greater love and affection with their partners.

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The younger you are when you have sex for the first time the less likely you are to have stable relationships later in life. Because teenage relationships are inherently unstable (how can you know who you want to be with for the rest of your life at age 16?), most of them break up, often abruptly. The resulting trauma tends to be lasting because you are not yet as emotionally resilient as you will be as an adult.

The other risk with teenage sex is learning unhealthy patterns of relating. Due to the immaturity of partners at that age, it's likely that you will ride the emotional roller coaster up and down with the drama of being "on" one week and "off" the next. This creates highs and lows not unlike the ones associated with drug use. Because the brain is still forming as a teenager, you can cement an impression that this is "normal" for relationships, causing you to seek partners later in life with whom you re-create that instability. Sometimes that leads to a syndrome called Love Addiction.

Last, but not least, young people tend to be less informed about sexual health, resulting in teen pregnancies and the transmission of STDs. The bottom line is this: do your best to put off being sexual until at least age nineteen, for the best overall life and relationship outcomes. Regardless of the age at which you begin having sex, the next piece of advice will help you make better decisions about your sexual relationships.

2. How long you date your partner before having sex

The longer you date before having sex, the more likely you will get to the stage of emotional commitment prior to being sexual. Studies show that the higher the level of commitment, the greater the overall relationship satisfaction. That finding is especially true for women.

Before you hop in the sack, check out what the latest research has to say about premarital sex.
Becoming sexual with a partner typically means that the choosing is over for her, and the chasing is over for him. Your bond is deeper and the choice is more real if you've taken the time to really know one another prior to sex.

The other issue is emotional insecurity. Sex-too-soon often causes women to feel insecure and men to steer away from the perception of neediness. She wakes up the next day believing they're in a relationship, while he may feel that he's still checking her out. The bottom line: putting off sex with a new partner — for weeks, if not months — helps you pave the way for a more loving experience.

3. Your choice of partner

Postponing sex increases the likelihood of making a better choice of partner, and that is especially true for women. Studies show that women in particular, following sex, experience significant increases of oxytocin, a hormone that promotes bonding. That is why you can choose a sexual partner thinking it is going to be "fun and games" but wake up the next day craving validation that you are in a relationship.

Because sexual bonding tends to cloud judgment, putting off sex gives you a better shot at remaining somewhat objective, and thus more capable of evaluating a potential partner. The whole point of dating and relating is to choose a good partner, someone to love and be loved by, with whom you share values and want the same outcomes in life.

Sex is a wonderful shared experience in a loving, committed relationship. To get to that experience, you may have to rein in your hormones, practice delayed gratification, and use your rational brain to make choices. But the reward may well be worth the wait!

Love

25 Valentine’s Day Ideas for Couples

10:36 AM

Here are some creative ways to tell your spouse, “I love you.”

Is it more important to love … or to be loved?
Most of us would agree with George Eliot’s words, “I like not only to be loved, but also to be told I am loved.”

Valentine’s Day is the occasion when you can experience both. We asked LondonClicks Facebook friends and e-mail readers to share some of their favorite Valentine’s Day ideas.
With a little help from our friends, here are 25 creative ways to tell your spouse, “I love you.”

Write down every kind of kiss

1. On small pieces of paper, write down every kind of kiss that you can think of (examples: passionate, on the cheek, etc.). Then fill an inexpensive red felt bag with your “kisses” and give it to your spouse. Ask your spouse to pull several pieces of paper from the felt bag, and then give your sweetheart whatever kind of kiss is described.

Make a book about why you love your spouse

2. Make a book about why you love your spouse and why you are thankful for him/her. The woman who sent this idea wrote, “He loved it! Said it was the best gift he has ever gotten. And it helped me to focus on the things I love about my husband and not his shortcomings.”

Instructions your Valentine’s Day activities

3. Take your sweetie on a scavenger hunt. Ask him/her to answer riddles to find the clues to items that you placed somewhere around town. The last item should give instructions that lead to your Valentine’s Day activities.

Enjoying a candlelight dinner

4. After enjoying a candlelight dinner for two at home, give your spouse a massage and watch a romantic movie. The woman who suggested this wrote, “Last Valentine’s Day when I got home from work, my husband … had our bedroom set up with a candlelit table for two. He is NOT a cook but he made an awesome meal … grilled steak, sautéed shrimp in lemon, garlic, and butter, a vegetable, and [he] bought a chocolate fountain that was flowing—surrounded by fresh fruit for dipping. After dinner he led me over to his homemade massage table. … We ended our special night with a romantic movie.”

Surprise your spouse with a special getaway together

5. Surprise your spouse with a special getaway together. The man who suggested this made reservations at a bed and breakfast, arranged for childcare, asked for time off from work for himself and his wife, and packed his and her bags. When he asked his wife to go to lunch on Valentine’s Day she was in for a wonderful surprise. “The little bit of effort I put into that weekend paid off huge for weeks to come.” (For an extra special experience, take your spouse to one of LondonClicks's Weekend to Remember® marriage getaways. It's one of the best investments you could make in your marriage. Find an event near you.

Give your wife a dozen roses

6. Give your wife a dozen roses. On each stem attach a note for a future date—to do something that she would enjoy. (For example, “Go to the symphony.”)

7. If possible, go on a date with your spouse to a restaurant that you enjoyed when you first met. After you order your meal, take some time to write down favorite memories from the past year. Then share your lists.

8. Have 11 roses delivered to your wife, and then give her a 12th yourself while reading her a love poem.

9. Fill a large box with helium balloons and special gifts for Valentine’s Day. The woman who suggested this said that her gifts included “new sleep shorts for him and a new nightgown for me, a box of chocolate-covered strawberries and red napkins ... some new candles, and a romantic CD. He got the hint. And loved the weekend.”

Create an intimate Valentine’s Day evening

10. Create an intimate Valentine’s Day evening at home, without the children. The woman who suggested this idea said that she and her husband “enjoyed planning the menu, shopping for the meal, and ultimately preparing the meal together. Cooking to soft, romantic music can really be a turn on! While dining, the same soft, romantic music is a wonderful mood-setter. Dinner was followed by just the two of us having the whole dance floor, our den, to ourselves. I won’t say what all this led to, but it was a truly romantic night that would not have happened at the local restaurant!”

11. Order food from a take-out restaurant and have a picnic for all the Valentines in your family on your living room floor. The person who suggested this said, “The kids look forward to this every year. When we tried to change it, they wouldn’t allow it ... it has become a tradition. The kids see the value of family and a loving marriage.”

12. Privacy and weather permitting, watch a romantic movie on your deck or patio.

13. If you are separated across the miles, send a care package filled with things that are red.

14. Make a meal with symbols of love. Examples: Write I love you with string beans, make a tart in the shape of a heart …

15. Hide little heart candies in your spouse’s shoes, coat, car, etc. The woman who suggested this said that she’s been doing this for decades. “Now a couple of the grandkids help me with delight.”

16. Wives, show up at your husband’s office before lunch. Call him from the parking lot and tell him you are going to take him for a lunch rendezvous and that you will be waiting for him whenever he can take a break. Wear a nice outfit and tell him you have something sexy on underneath for when he gets home. Take him to a nice place for lunch and back to the office. Give him some great kisses telling him how glad you are to be married to him, and tell him you will be waiting for him when he gets home.

17. Fill a jar with Valentine candy and notes for your spouse. Examples of notes are: Good for a backrub, 10 kisses, etc. Notes could also express your love and respect: “I am so glad that God blessed my life with such a great husband like you.” Individually roll each note and tie it with a ribbon.

18. Surprise your spouse by taking a vacation day from work and enjoy Valentine’s Day at home. Have a relaxing morning together on the porch, deck, or patio. Then go to a favorite restaurant for lunch. The man who suggested this idea had also reserved a spa treatment and tanning session for his wife. “While she was doing that,” he says, “I went home and made her a special dinner.”

19. Write a poem for your spouse and frame it.

20. On individual note cards, write why you love your spouse. Insert these cards in a small photo album. The woman who suggested this idea began her album with a honeymoon picture and introductory note card, and ended it with a love note.

21. Surprise your husband when he comes home from work on February 14. Place a welcome sign on the kitchen table and leave a trail of red foil-wrapped Hershey kisses to your bedroom.

22. With roses in hand and permission from your wife’s boss, go to her workplace and read a love poem to her. The woman who shared this idea said, “I am a teacher in an inner-city school. Last year my husband dressed in my favorite suit and tie, came to my school with roses in hand. He got permission and assistance from the office staff to open the speaker system into my classroom and proceeded to read a long and beautiful love poem to me. He then came to my classroom and presented me with the bouquet of roses which I received while wiping my tears of joy and love for this wonderful man whom I have been married to for just under 30 years.”

23. Make a special “14 Reasons I Love You” Valentine’s Day breakfast for your sweetheart. On his/her plate, leave a letter or card listing 14 reasons that you love your spouse.

24. If possible, send a card postmarked in a town that has a romantic name such as Loveland, Colorado; Valentine, Texas; or Romance, Arkansas.

25. After your spouse goes to bed, tape notes to his car’s steering wheel with reasons that you love him, or decorate the bathroom mirror with lipstick kisses or Valentine’s window clings.

Have fun on February 14, and remember: Love is not meant to be given and received just on Valentine’s Day. Instead, it’s to be practiced every single day of the entire year.

How to Sex

9 Easy Ways to Make Your Quickies Better

10:47 PM

1. Find sex toys that always work for you so you don't have to fumble around reading weird instructions when you really only have 10 minutes to make this happen. Couples vibrators are great and could potentially help you get off a lot faster, but not if you have no idea how they work or find out they're making your partner's balls feel like they're smashed up against a shaky building.

2. Make foreplay an hours-long event by sexting each other all day long. If you've been sexting with each other for hours when you're apart, you're bound to be super turned on when you finally see each other, thereby cutting your time in half by a million minutes. BTW, the correct amount of time to spend on foreplay is a million minutes.

3. Use lube so you can get ~*super wet*~ super fast. Look, if you only have a few minutes to really get up in that, odds are you're not going to immediately be TLC's Waterfall down there. That's OK. This is one of many reasons why lube exists. Thank you, lube.

4. Go crazy on yourself before going crazy on each other. Starting off with mutual masturbation so you can both get there sooner takes so much pressure off the warm-up. And, if done properly, cuts your "Is this working for you? How about now?" time down to basically zero.

5. Have him go down on you as an appetizer or the whole freaking meal. There's no reason why your quickie can't involve him going down on you if that's something that really, really works for you. It can be followed by penetration or followed by you falling asleep because you really needed that. That said, if penetration is really a must for you…

6. Start with the position that never fails to get you off 4,000 times in a row. If you know that you have good sex in the doggy-style and great sex in woman-on-top, just start there. There's no point in playing around with positions you sort of like when you have to be at work in 15 minutes (and god knows you'll have to spend 10 of those fixing your hair after this).

7. Wear something you can pull up or rip off without caring (just like in the movies!). I'm not saying you need to go out and by a pair of Backstreet Boys-style breakaway adidas pants, but if you know you're going to have a quickie later, it might not be the best time to wear Spanx and a pair of tights. You will seriously spend all your quickie time trying to find a hot way to get out of what is basically a vise for your vag.

8. Leave your socks on because cozy feet = orgasms. I know this sounds like something I made up, but a 2013 study from the University of Groningen in the Netherlands found that 80 percent of the women they spoke with had orgasms when they wore socks, compared with 50 percent of women who didn't wear socks. So it's not a guarantee, but hey, every little bit helps and taking them off takes too much time anyway.

9. Have sex like it's the last time you'll ever have sex in your whole life. Breathe heavily, moan as loud as a baby crying on an airplane, touch your partner like you haven't seen him in a year. If it's only going to happen for a few minutes, you'd better make them "last bite of something delicious" minutes.

Love Making Tips

Best Relationship Advice

7:30 AM

Read on to find the key principles you should adhere to and that form the cornerstones of the unwritten dating and relationship bible:

1. Have self value
This is the key point because it's critical to your success with people. If you take on board nothing else in this article - make a mental note of this point!

Most women fail in love for this reason and this reason alone. Women are pre-socialised doormats. We were raised to believe we need to give in order to get but we have been misguided.

The women who are successful in love honor themselves before a man. Such women stand for something knowing that if they didn't they would fall for anything.

How do you do this exactly you may ask?

You establish boundaries. In your mind you develop a list of behaviours or actions that a man may do which you find unacceptable. If you don't know off the top of your head yet, remember them when they happen. If you don't know how to judge whether you are being rational or not, simply trust that if something offends or hurts you - it's not okay and you need to let him know or cut him off completely.

Put yourself first. Never put a man before yourself. Why? Because no one else will look after you when he isn't there or everyone else has commitments because they are looking after themselves. Secondly, a man will only value you as much as you value yourself. So if you are putting him first you are decreasing your value by default.

Don't try to please him. It sounds counterintuitive to a female, but it screams desperation. When you go the extra distance to show him how much you care it will look just like that to him, that you are trying to hard.

Girlfriend - get a life. There is nothing sexier than a woman who has her own life, goals - something going for herself. A man wants to be a part of your world if it is going on. Think about it, that is exactly why you want to be a part of a guy's life, because it's exciting and he has something going for himself.

Express yourself. Just like men like a woman who is playful or a woman who smiles and melts his heart, they also love a woman who expresses herself openly through her gestures. It shows her self-belief and value as person.

Love

Love Is Also a Four Letter Word

7:27 AM

We have come a long way since 1960 when the dead hand of the censor was lifted off the classic novel, Lady Chatterley's Lover. As a youngster, I must have got hold of a contraband copy and my youthful fingers trembled as I turned the novel's pages. I am not surprised that author; D.H. Lawrence first considered calling his novel Tenderness. The love making between Lady Chatterley and her gamekeeper lover Oliver Mellors was in fact sensitively portrayed. The language used was matter of fact without intending to shock. The censors were right to lift the ban.

Here was a golden opportunity in literature to treat the act of making love as the most pure and noble of human experiences. Instead, the floodgates opened to reduce this most precious of gifts, that of procreation, to the depths of degeneracy. Pornography has turned love-making into a display of semi-violent crude sex. It is now as far removed from romantic love as it is possible to be. The scenes portrayed are often perverted, depraved and in graphic form similar to biblical visions of hell. Few of us can relate such activity to our own lives.

What happened to the inspiring nature of lovemaking; the quickened heart of love at first sight; a shy flowering of mutual attraction; the chemistry between two people we know exists but cannot fathom. Is the love that grows to a point where a partner's life is more important than one's own still recognized? Pornography slammed its jackboot on the neck of mutual affection, togetherness, tenderness, shared spirits and ideals. Porn trampled on commitment, the concept of developing relationships through the most beautiful form of foreplay imaginable; the courting process. Pornography is what pig swill is to food. The quackery of mockery clubbed the world's romantic idealists and set out its stall to the most base of animal instincts in man.

True lovemaking is a carnival of living for its purpose is life. Pornography represents the death of spiritual and physical romance; it drives a stake through its life-giving purpose. It wasn't the removal of censorship that let loose the backed-up sewer of pornography that flooded over our lives. It was our inability to separate the highest form of romance from the most debauched and degenerate of sex. We are reminded of Elizabeth Browning's poem: How do I Love Thee? This beautiful poem is still voted Britain's most loved romantic poem. If the word beginning with the letter L was replaced with another four letter word beginning with F would that poem and many other sonnets of pure love have survived for five minutes let alone hundreds of years? That is the difference between animal rutting and romantic love: One lasts for a few minutes to leave a feeling of barrenness, the other lasts for centuries and leaves one with a sense of fulfillment.

Michael Walsh was voted 'Writer of the Year' by the editorial board of Euro Weekly News. This English language newspaper is read by 550,000 readers. A broadcaster and author of over thirty titles, he is a journalist / columnist providing hundreds of media published articles to mainstream international media. The author's specialty is poetry, current affairs, globalization, the Third Reich and World War Two.

How To

11 Tips on How to Kiss Perfectly

2:06 PM

A kiss can make you feel everything, or it can make you feel nothing. Therefore, a common purpose of the kiss is helping determine your attraction to someone.

A kiss can make you feel everything, or it can make you feel nothing. Therefore, a common purpose of the kiss is helping determine your attaction to someone. A kiss can make or break your relationship: it is the separator between friend and lover.

It could be argued that a kiss is just as intimate as sex, and makes just as much of an impact. I remember certain kisses more than most of my sexual encounters.

Here are my ingredients for a good kiss:

1. Freshen Up

It's common sense, but too many people are guilty of having bad breath. Bad breath can happen to you! Practice self-awareness and make sure you keep your teeth clean and your breath fresh. It doesn't matter how good a kisser you are, bad breath will ruin everything.

2. Build the Moment

Whether it's the end of a first date, or after a few weeks of dating, the anticipation you build creates tension and you break the tension with a kiss. It's like the anxious moments in any good developing story. Make sure you don't wait so long that the other person questions whether you're interested in them...or the opposite sex, as I'm prone to do.

3. Work Your Eyes

When you're leaning in for a kiss, you can't use your mouth to speak, so why not say something with eye contact? But, I make sure to close my eyes during the actual kiss because it's a little creepy when one of us has our eyes open, and it can be distracting. For instance, I couldn't have kissed anyone with my eyes open this past week with Discovery Channel on in the background because it was Shark Week-- I would have totally snuck some peeks at the TV. They say that blind people's senses other than sight are enhanced. Temporary blindness during a kiss may intensify the way a kiss feels, the sound of another person's breathing, or the touch of their hand.

4. Don't Try to Control It, Let It Control You

A good kiss is powerful, so you should just let it grip you and go with it. The moment is broken if you try to control it.

5. Kiss People You Like

We are all guilty of kissing people we weren't into: maybe on the dance floor, or during a moment of weakness late night in the bar. If you only kiss people you really want to kiss, those kisses will be a lot better. Kissing too many people might lead to numbness. But on the other hand, some people might tell you "practice makes perfect".

6. Sit Back and Relax

Kissing is a team effort. Don't squelch someone's spirit by going on the offensive or taking control. Feel each other's tendencies out, and go from there.

7. Mind Your Tongue

Tongue use can be great, or horrible. My buddy was dating a girl who continuously licked his face when they kissed. It led to them breaking up. Remember, it's a kiss, not a facial wash. No one likes to be attacked by a tongue, or have their entire mouth filled by someone's tongue. But a tongue used well can make a kiss great.

8. Be Spontaneous

Catching someone off guard with a kiss can be a wonderful thing. Give them a little gift when they least expect it.

9. Pay Attention to Surroundings

Whether it's candlelight, a tent under the stars, in the ocean, or in a sudden rain storm, special/new surroundings make a kiss interesting. Because your eyes are closed most of the time during a kiss, you'll hear and even feel the things that are going on around you more clearly.

10. Control Your Saliva

Make sure, like your tongue, you control your saliva. Don't create river of slobber down your chins.

11. Use Your Hands

Don't get fixated on someone's face. Touching their neck or sides, or just holding them close during a kiss makes it even better.

Entertainment

10 last-minute Valentine’s Day gift ideas

2:44 PM

Life is good—and then suddenly you remember that tomorrow is Valentine’s Day. But now it must be too late to find an appropriate gift or arrange a romantic celebration. Au contraire. With a little imagination, you can still have a Valentine’s Day to remember. Here are 10 last-minute gift ideas to help make your holiday special.

Hearts and flowers

www.londonclicks.blogspot.com — Flowers are a perfect last-minute gift for Valentine's Day. They're not only traditional, they're also widely available. Even grocery stores carry beautiful bouquets and arrangements for Valentine's Day. Make your gift of flowers a little extra special this year by slipping a love note or some handcrafted chocolates in among the blossoms.

Let me count the ways

Buy your beloved a book of love poems at the nearest bookstore. It doesn't really matter whether you choose Shakespearean sonnets, love poems by Rumi, the 13th century Persian poet, or a volume of modern verse. A book of love poems can transform your last-minute purchase into a gift of timeless beauty.

No reservations? No problem

What could be better than a romantic dinner on Valentine's Day? But getting last-minute reservations may be nearly impossible. Rather than settle for something less than perfect, make your own romance with a picnic featuring food from your favorite deli or gourmet shop. If the February weather is too wet or cold where you live, find an indoor alternative: a car parked at a favorite overlook; your high-rise office with a glittering view of the city lights; the cabin of a borrowed boat or RV; or a blanket at home in front of the fire.
Try a little bling

As a Valentine's Day gift, jewelry is a time-tested classic, and you can often find last-minute deals on a wide range of great pieces. A beautiful pendant or earrings for her; a handsome bracelet or watch for him. Whatever you choose, jewelry is a Valentine's Day gift that is sure to please.

Smile for the camera

Use your video camera to record an intimate message that will leave no doubt about the depth and intensity of your love. It's a last-minute gift that your beloved can keep and treasure -- and replay again and again.
Frame it

If a picture is worth a thousand words, why not send your beloved an eloquent Valentine's Day message with a framed photo that declares your love? Whether you choose an image of the two of you or one that evokes a memory you share, the right photo will make your Valentine's Day picture perfect.

Start a love journal

Buy a nicely bound journal and write on the first page, sharing just one of the many things you appreciate about the man or woman of your dreams. Make this year's Valentine's Day gift the journal and that first romantic page. Then pledge to write a new entry each day of the coming year, and give your beloved the
completed journal on Valentine's Day next year.
Get a room
You don't have to fly to Paris to have a romantic evening. Call around to local hotels and book a last-minute room for two. February is the off-season for travel in most places, so you should have no problem finding a boudoir for the night that will fit both your budget and your mood.
Say it with ink

Be spontaneous! Make a permanent declaration of love with matching tattoos. Actually, they don't have to match. You can each get a tattoo that has meaning not only for you but also for the person you love, and together make a statement that time can't erase.

Photo: With love of photography/Flickr/Getty Images — Flowers are a perfect last-minute gift for Valentine's Day. They're not only traditional, they're also widely available. Even grocery stores carry beautiful bouquets and arrangements for Valentine's Day. Make your gift of flowers a little extra special this year by slipping a love note or some handcrafted chocolates in among the blossoms.

Let me count the ways

Buy your beloved a book of love poems at the nearest bookstore. It doesn't really matter whether you choose Shakespearean sonnets, love poems by Rumi, the 13th century Persian poet, or a volume of modern verse. A book of love poems can transform your last-minute purchase into a gift of timeless beauty.

No reservations? No problem

What could be better than a romantic dinner on Valentine's Day? But getting last-minute reservations may be nearly impossible. Rather than settle for something less than perfect, make your own romance with a picnic featuring food from your favorite deli or gourmet shop. If the February weather is too wet or cold where you live, find an indoor alternative: a car parked at a favorite overlook; your high-rise office with a glittering view of the city lights; the cabin of a borrowed boat or RV; or a blanket at home in front of the fire.
Try a little bling

As a Valentine's Day gift, jewelry is a time-tested classic, and you can often find last-minute deals on a wide range of great pieces. A beautiful pendant or earrings for her; a handsome bracelet or watch for him. Whatever you choose, jewelry is a Valentine's Day gift that is sure to please.

Smile for the camera

Use your video camera to record an intimate message that will leave no doubt about the depth and intensity of your love. It's a last-minute gift that your beloved can keep and treasure -- and replay again and again.
Frame it

If a picture is worth a thousand words, why not send your beloved an eloquent Valentine's Day message with a framed photo that declares your love? Whether you choose an image of the two of you or one that evokes a memory you share, the right photo will make your Valentine's Day picture perfect.

Start a love journal

Buy a nicely bound journal and write on the first page, sharing just one of the many things you appreciate about the man or woman of your dreams. Make this year's Valentine's Day gift the journal and that first romantic page. Then pledge to write a new entry each day of the coming year, and give your beloved the
completed journal on Valentine's Day next year.
Get a room
You don't have to fly to Paris to have a romantic evening. Call around to local hotels and book a last-minute room for two. February is the off-season for travel in most places, so you should have no problem finding a boudoir for the night that will fit both your budget and your mood.
Say it with ink

Be spontaneous! Make a permanent declaration of love with matching tattoos. Actually, they don't have to match. You can each get a tattoo that has meaning not only for you but also for the person you love, and together make a statement that time can't erase.

1. Make Her A Mixtape

2. Borrow A Puppy

3. Leave Her Notes

4. Take Her Back in Time

5. Who's Her Favorite Writer?

6. Sexy Underwear… For You

7. Spontaneous Stay-At-Home Dinner

8. Bake Her A Cake

9. Clear Space For Her At Your Place

10. Write Her A Romantic Letter

11. Learn How To Give A Real Massage

12. Tell Her You Love Her

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1. Coffee

2. Oysters

3. Chillies

4. Bananas

5. Salmon

6. Pork

7. Cherries

8. Onions

9. Wine

10. Porridge

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Instructions your Valentine’s Day activities

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Surprise your spouse with a special getaway together

Give your wife a dozen roses

Create an intimate Valentine’s Day evening

A kiss can make you feel everything, or it can make you feel nothing. Therefore, a common purpose of the kiss is helping determine your attraction to someone.

1. Freshen Up

2. Build the Moment

3. Work Your Eyes

4. Don't Try to Control It, Let It Control You

5. Kiss People You Like

6. Sit Back and Relax

7. Mind Your Tongue

8. Be Spontaneous

9. Pay Attention to Surroundings

10. Control Your Saliva

11. Use Your Hands

Hearts and flowers

Let me count the ways

No reservations? No problem

Try a little bling

Smile for the camera

Frame it

Start a love journal

Get a room

Say it with ink

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